For Men…

It is necessary to make the leap into the wisdom of your body. It is through your body that you access a knowing that is far deeper, and wiser, than thought. This includes getting in touch with your anger, rage, grief, sadness, pain, aliveness, desire, and shame. It means taking a look at some of the behaviors that are preventing you from being genuine and authentic in living your truth; old patterns, habits, substance use, and isolation, which keep you from engaging your awareness and being your own sexual authority.

Another necessary aspect of this work is to review and own your own sexual history — every part of it — from the parts that cause you shame to your peak erotic experiences. By doing this, you will be able to evolve into your most unique expression of sexual desire…unapologetic and without condition. …read more…

 

For Women…

Centuries of cultural conditioning have created a society that has separated women from the amazing possibilities of their bodies, and placed perceived limitations on how a woman should act, what she should think and say, and how she should relate to her sexuality and desire nature.

As a result, many women don’t know how to get what they want because they haven’t had sufficient opportunity to define what it is that they want. They haven’t given themselves — or been afforded — the time and space to dive into their own desires, nor to have those desires affirmed, valued and supported. Instead, many settle for relationships or jobs that seem good enough, but which end up feeling unfulfilled, lacking in purpose or meaning, even destructive. …read more…

 

For Couples…

Many couples I’ve seen have a good relational basis along with attraction and desire for one another, but have noticed that sex has become routine……We have a mistaken belief in our society that great sex is “just supposed to happen.” However, in long-term relationships or relationships where there wasn’t a strong sexual foundation to begin with, couples need to consciously invest time, creativity, and energy into keeping their sex life alive and interesting.

In my work, I help couples enhance and expand their sexual repertoire in order to have ongoing desire. I help you gain the necessary communication skills to express yourself and receive the others expression as you dive into the realms of sensation, fantasy, and passionate connection to create an exciting and multifaceted sexual relationship between you and your partner. …read more…